Gerry Turner talks candidly about his post-wife’s death love troubles

Gerry Turner, the renowned star of The Golden Bachelor, recently spoke out about the difficulties he had finding love again after his wife Toni tragically passed away in 2017. Just a few days before the much awaited conclusion of the famous reality program, on November 29, Turner, 72, who was well-known for his charisma and amiable manner, spoke up to PEOPLE in an exclusive interview.

Speaking candidly about his turbulent entry into the dating scene after the death of his wife, Turner said that despite his early optimism, he faced unforeseen obstacles. Acknowledging the complex nature of his experiences, Turner spoke up about his failed efforts at many relationships and the realm of online dating.

Turner said, “Somehow I got it in my head that if you grieve for a year, that at the end of the year, you should be okay,” in contrast to his previous notion that a year of grieving would be adequate preparation for a new relationship. It was not at all the case. Three years after Toni’s death, he made the choice to seek comfort and direction from a grief counselor as a result of this insight, which proved to be pivotal in his recovery process.

Turner’s improvement was validated by the bereavement counselor, who was crucial in giving comfort and a new perspective on his emotional condition. Turner pointed out that there was one positive aspect to his dating experiences: he made a genuine bond that developed from his dating adventures. He said that this friendship turned into a source of comfort and optimism for him among the challenges and complications he encountered.

Gerry Turner’s open admissions, which resonate with many who have walked the difficult path of relationships following a spouse’s death, serve as a potent reminder of the complexity of love and grief as The Golden Bachelor draws near to its conclusion. Turner’s candor regarding his experiences, setbacks, and recent friendships gives his public character an emotional touch by highlighting the human tenacity and fragility in the face of loss and the search for love.